If we look objectively and absolutely at ANY sex, on its own, in isolation, it can ALL seem “gross”. It is one used by people who see the relationship in terms of sex leading to intimacy, rather than intimacy leading to sex. The idea that he has that sex with men is “gross”, by the very use of that word (which is a little bit old-fashioned) indicates to me an orthodox response rather than a thought-out response. But I do know (from decades of personal experience) that many men DO in fact want not simply a close relationship with other men but even an intimate one, even to the extent of physical intimacy. But why specifically gay men? Perhaps he may think that a straight man that he wished to befriend may simply assume that HE must be gay. If he is disillusioned with women, he now seeks the company of men. ![]() We have to be cautious not to be as ‘cut and dried’ as the original guy seems to be.
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